Emerge Book Circles
  • Home
    • Professional Book Circles
    • Bespoke Book Labs
    • Emerge Playground
    • The State of L&D
    • The Reading Hour
  • About Me
  • Podcast
  • Resources
  • Blog

From Mustivation To Motivation

9/8/2025

 
Picture
My grandmother grew up in the Southern US, where there is a well established protocol for just about every thing.

Also known as, "Southern hospitality."

Of course, my mother grew up with it, and then passed it down to me.

Among those teachings was the art of writing a “Thank You” card.

When I was a child, I resented it.
I didn't see why a simple, verbal "Thank you" wasn't enough.
My only motivation was the "MUST" of my mother.
I had "mustivation" as Tasha Eurich calls it.

Now I see it completely differently.

In this fast-paced, always on, super noisy world, I want to slow down.
I want to connect with people for real.
I want to bring humanness back to humanity.
Kindness back to humankind.

What used to be a chore, is now a joy.

I send out a couple of these "Thank You" postcards each week.

Not for gifts given like when I was a child, but for moments of real connection.

It often blows people's minds - in a good way.

What small act could you do to show appreciation for the little things?

Originally posted on LinkedIn with comments.

Read Deeper Not Faster


Comments are closed.
    Picture

    Hi there!

    I am Theresa Destrebecq.

    I am a passionate learner and leader who loves books, so I started a company that brings book-learning to companies to make it more social and transformational.

    It's about moving beyond just consuming ideas in isolation, to connecting those ideas to yourself, your colleagues, and your work.


    ​Email me to find out more.  

    RSS Feed


Privacy Policy

Terms and Conditions

Email

[email protected]
  • Home
    • Professional Book Circles
    • Bespoke Book Labs
    • Emerge Playground
    • The State of L&D
    • The Reading Hour
  • About Me
  • Podcast
  • Resources
  • Blog